to Natasha Bennett

date Mon, Jan 17, 2011 at 5:40 PM

subject since you probably already blocked me everywhere

[2:43:46 PM] Tash – aka. Nayeh: Lol you blocked me from Twitter & unfollowed me? Wtf is that about? Dramabomb much?

[3:00:35 PM] Tash – aka. Nayeh: Seriously though, if you’re not joking about the whole unfollowing, then let me know so i can A. know what the issue was and B. sever, you know?

[5:32:00 PM] Robert Spurlin: wow seriously? you have questions about why i unfollow and you pick the most unreliable why there is to ask me(skype runs all day at home where im not at during the week)… Also I did not realize our “friendship” was dependent on following each other on twitter. talk about blowing shit out of proportion. It wasnt drama until you made it, i just quietly unfollowed since we were also friends on facebook i didnt care where you were at, your 2k miles away. but what do i know, im just a fat fuck who never gets laid.

Good luck in life to you and Joey.

from FrozenDoll

to robert

date Mon, Jan 17, 2011 at 6:14 PM

subject Re: since you probably already blocked me everywhere

Ok, i don’t get why this is going on. First off, I do get upset if my friends unfriend/unfollow me from social networking places b/c I like to keep up with friends and i hope that they like to keep up with me. I was really taken aback by that and when I tried to message you via Twitter, it told me I couldn’t message you and that I was blocked! I was talking to Joey & Dave (Tial) when it happened, so it wasn’t like I was seeing things. I was really confused so i messaged you via Skype & then I sent you the public Twitter message and got back the whole “80% of the time it’s location updates”. I just don’t get why you didn’t say to me first, “Hey Tash, this annoys the shit out of me, why do you do it or could you do it less?” I actually have reasons as to why I do it, but I won’t get into in great detail now but it has to do with friends and co-workers keeping track of me instead of texting me 5 million times an hour to see if i’ve made it to this hospital or that, but whatever.

So yeah, I was kinda shocked b/c the first thing I hear of it (i saw a friend use a Twitter unfollower tracker and thought I’d check it out, bad timing, i guess) of anything going wrong is by seeing you unfollowed me & then I get that very vague response on Twitter publicly. Honestly, if my tweets annoyed you, I would’ve done it less b/c i’d rather communicate and have rapport with friends than appease work people, but thats too late now. So yeah, I get really nasty & say lots of things that I say out of anger in the moment. Also, maybe it’s a girl thing but I’ve had issues with friends in the past who were real life friends who stopped following me on Twitter and then lo & behold, they had an issue with something that happened that they never told me about and friendships were ended. Hence why when I saw this, i was like, wow, what did I do that upset him. That’s the first place my mind went. I’m not trying to be dramatic, I liked keeping up with you and talking to you, but what it looked like was ‘i’m no longer interested in what you have to say’. Maybe i’m just too sensitive but I was upset by it. If you can’t understand that, then that’s silly. You should be flattered that I CARED that you unfollowed me. I get unfollowed & unfollow random internet people all the time, but I don’t do that with people I consider my friends.